I have been married for 8 yrs and it has always been alot of arguments. We live 4 hrs away from all of our family and we have twin girls which we concieved thru IVF and we r blessed to have. I stay at home while they just started going to daycare half day. Sounds great but since my husband controls the money he has become very nasty towards me. Criticizing my weight, how i keep the house to how my family is trash because they dont help with anything. I just feel like he doesnt like me but he stays with me becaus eof the kids. I dont have the money to leave and sometimes I dont want to because he can have his nice moments like remodeling th ebathroom for th ekids. He is always yelling at me and trying to put me down infornt of people and I finfd myself embarrassed and just remaining mum. I dont want my marriage to end but I do want to be a good example for my kids. I feel so lost and not sure which direction to take, I keep making excuses for his behavior but is it me provoking him or is he just not good for me.