to ask someone that has had problem with other women via text, computer and voice to ask them to give up the cell phone and the computer? The cell can be set so that he can have contact with certain numbers but to limit it feels like a control thing. My thoughts for doing this would be peace of mind and to help alleviate the wondering/worry while we worked on us and counseling if I decided to stay? what about asking to stop contact with cousin that has given the telephone number to him of the most recent woman? If they haven't been close in like 24 years is it wrong to ask him to stop contact with the female cousin also?