I recently took a vacation in Mexico, met this awesome guy day 1 of my stay we were inseperable, I live in ontario and he lives in Quebec, we had decided to stay in touch and see if we could make it work. When i got back to my home, trying to get back to my routine, i realized there was something wrong... i started thinking back to my vacation, and remembered moments when we werent so careful... got worried, and realized i missed my period. Took about 6 home pregnancy test that came back positive. I decided to go get bloodwork to confirm.... and yes it was confirmed. My first thought was to contact him and tell him.... he was so upset, he called me irresponsable, that i should of known better, that he wants nothing to do with a baby. Upset is the correct word to describe how i feel. He decided to talk again tonight and he is trying to convince me to have an abortion. I cant and i told him! Therefore he wants nothing to do with me anymore. Since this was not part of his plan, was not part of mine either. But i will assume my responsibilities... I am just so sad, i never expected to bring my first child into this world under these circumstances... I always dreamed of the tradiational conventional way of things...