He's my partner at work. He's 38. I'm 27. It started out at friends, but we clicked instantly. And then, somewhere along the way I fell hopelessly in love. He has admitted attraction, that clearly runs deeper than sexual. Problem?

His live in girlfriend of 5 years, who's completely awful. She treats him badly, they fight all the time, she lies constantly. They go back and forth. Finally, he had had enough, called it quits. Her response was to suck up. He gave her 30 days to get out. She is still there, almost two months later.