I think I have pin pointed 'bad in bed' for me,after thinking about it. It's my boyfriend who is in a world of his own when in bed with me, no mental or emotional connection, hardly any eye contact and who seems to be more interested in his own pleasure than mine. Doesnt say one word while in bed.
That is my 2 yr relationship right now and outside the bedroom he is lots of fun and very interesting company, best friends and I always thought the bedroom stuff would improve but it hasnt, Its gotten worse.
I am 56 he is 52