I feel like I am always fighting with my boyfriend's friend for competition. Nobody likes this friend of his, he doesn't have a job, a car, and has a kid and constantly is bugging us and wants to always stay the night. We constantly have to give him rides everywhere because he has no way of getting around and lives in the country so if he comes to town from a ride from his mom it's hard for him to get back home unless we take him so my boyfriend lets him stay the night at our apartment all of the time and I don't like it at all. This friend of his is the only reason my boyfriend and I fight and I don't know what to do about it but I'm tired of his friend always staying the night and causing problems. What can I do about this? Help!
Also, his friend is very messy and stays at the apartment alone even when we're not here because we're working and I don't think he needs to be here when we're not I don't trust people alone in our apartment we have too many valuables.