so about 5 years ago there is this girl I was just friends with for about a year. At some point we went out on a couple dates. On the second date I drove us about 45 minutes to see a band play. it went ok until the end of the night when she very politely asked me if I wouldn't mind if she stayed there with some friends. And I ended up making that seemingly endless drive home alone....also way before this she called me up one night drunk and crying at 2 am. She was sitting in the middle of a traffic lane with a flat and needless to say I went there and changed her tire and got her out of there before the cops showed up.

Well I soon thereafter learned that she was never interested in me. She just used me to get a ride when she needed a ride and get her out of jams because she knew I would come. This has left me somewhat scarred and weary of women.

So I'm going to see her at a friends party tomorrow and I'm hoping for some advice on wether I should forgive and forget or not give her the time of day. Any thoughts?