Is it just me or almost ALL the men on the dating sites need showers, haircuts and shaving? Most look like they've either crawled out from under a trailor or are too good-looking to approach. I'm 51 and on two dating sites, I'm attractive and have my s*** together. Why am I not getting any hits and why are all the men so unapproachable? I haven't dated in over 15 years and I got used to walking into a bar, picking out who I wanted and leaving with them. It was easy. Now I'm too old for bars and live in a small town and can't seem to meet anyone except online. Anyone with any tips for this will be welcomed.