About a month after I found out I was pregnant I found my boyfriends online dating account, it was open and I read a lot of messages between him and other women. Some local, some even knew about me. Althought he says all that happened was talk, I find it hard to believe, there were conversations about where, when etc. I even spoke to one on the phone. He was planning on meeting her on a work trip, she had no idea about me.