posed another way?

Okay, okay.....I got my last thread, with the 'gift information inserts' were tacky......so, it just wasn't done.

And, honestly, if one reads the whole thread, you'll see my 'dilemma' about this wedding....so it's not really about getting gifts, it's about not have 'any' control over "our wedding".

But, besides my dilemma.....since all the cards are addressed to RSVP back to CA, my sister said, people are not going to know to send gifts to Texas, unless I inform them.....so I won't suggest bringing gift cards, instead of gifts, since we can't take them home to Texas.