I expressed interest on a dating site and he accepted my interest. He gave me his email address, so I emailed him just saying "hi". As a response to my first email, he asked me for my phone number. So, I sent it to him.
He gave me a call a week later. We talked for about 15 minutes or so. His number was blocked and during our conversation, I mentioned it to him. He said he would text me his number and he did. He has some family in my neck of the woods. He suggested we meet for coffee the next time he will be in my city. I responded "Sounds good."
He is studying in a med school and so I assume he must be keeping really busy which is fine as I'm a busy-bee myself. When we talked for the first time, he said we would have to keep in touch via text messages for now. I was OK with it as I plan on following him.
He didn't text me during the week. I assumed he was not interested and so I continued to find other suitors. When least expected, he called me on the weekend. He called me 3 times - twice from some other numbers and once from his number. I missed all his calls as I did not have my cell phone with me. He left me a voice mail that said "Just wanted to say hi and see how you're doing. I don't plan on coming to your city anytime soon. Thought I should let you know. Anyways, I'll give you a shout another time. Maybe we could Or maybe I'll text you."
I did not call him back, wasn't sure if I could. So, I sent him a text message "thank you for your voicemail. All is well and hope things are good at your end".
Though I'm not analyzing too much about the whole thing but considering I hardly understand the subtle hints that men normally give, I want to know what his voice message really meant. Simply put, I think
- he was just letting me know not to have my hopes up about him and me meeting up soon.