I am new here and I am looking for some advice. I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter who has ASD, and SPD. She is still not eating any table foods. She finally started eating baby food from a spoon, but it has to be spread out a little throughout the day. I have to give her a bottle to make sure she gets in some nutrition. My biggest problem is her teeth! They are really stained in the front and when I try to brush them, I can't use toothpaste because she gags or throws up or when when I just try to use the brush, she screams and fights. I took her to a dentist that was suppose to be knowledgable about autism...I don't think so!! I watched as they held her down and cleaned her teeth while she screamed and gagged!. I felt like the worse mom in the world! Her teeth were clean for a while but now they getting dark again. I am so confused. I just learned about autism the later part of last year and I have no idea what I am doing! Please help!!