I have been with my husband for 8 yrs. I am also 8 yrs younger than he is so I've been with him since I was 17. It has been a roller coaster I feel mentally and physically drained we have two children together. But here the past few years I have found him talking to other females he denies ever cheating on me but I feel that he has. We had an arguement lastnight about the past and things that he has done to me in the past. I really feel at this point we need to split up or something he doesn't want me to leave I am so confused should I try therapy before I make such a big decsion. He started doing this when he got the job that he is at now it seems like it is never ending I try to forget but the past ujust comes and smacks me in the face again I am hurting but it seems like he doesn't want to deal with it he keeps trying to make me feel better but I keep asking myself is this the end or what . He chats with online porn girls so idk what that is about he getsto wherfe he is very sexual then he isn't I don't know if my depression is in the way or not. I need advice someone to talk to help me cope with things that I feel. Why does he want to talk with females?