Hubby an I have been married 5 years an he divorced since 2002. He has a daughter that spends a lot of time with her grandparents which is great. Problem is I feel the Ex should not ask his parents to babysit, pick daughter up from school and take daughter to doctor appointments all the time. She never asks her parents an her father is home all the time he is retired and her mother is a partite real estate agent who works right across street from daughters school, not to mention the Exs sister has kids at same school. But she never asks them. Now the problem is my hubbies mother still talks to an invites the Ex over. I kinda feel this is disrespectful to me. I understand she was a part of their life before me but she an hubby were only married 3 years an yes I know they have a child together, but I draw the line at mother in law inviting her over last Christmas with us there. I know it's not my house but really?. Am I wrong here or do I have a right to be peeved. I asked hubby to say something but I don't know if he did. Should I voice my opinion or keep quiet.