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lonelylover69 [1]
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Sat, 04-07-2012 - 9:49am

me and my husband have been together 8 years and married for almost 5. our sex life was great for the first 2 years. He had two heart attacks and six stents put in his heart. We got married a few weeks after he got out of hospital and a few weeks after that we found out i was pregnant w/our now 3 year old daugther. Our sex life has slowly gone down hill. He went to dr about 6 mos ago and found out his testorone levels were low so they put him on liquid testerone and gave him some shots. That helped for awhile, but when it came time to go back to dr he refused and wouldnt refill his medication. Its like he just dont care anymore. He says he does but he wont do anything about it. I parade around in cute outfits for him, tried multiple things to make him want me, but nothing. Im at my breaking point. He'l be 45 in may and i'll be 33 in july. I dont want to divorce him just over our sex life, but i feel like a roommate more than a wife. My self confidence is very low because of it. I've even told him if something dont change I would get it elswhere, he just laughs and tells me Im silly. It's like he dont take me seriously. Ive suggested consuling and he thinks its a waste of time.......idk what to do............any suggestions?

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