Hey I am Ellie. I posted my situation on another board but decided to post here as well. I will get right to the point. The situation I find myself in with my boyfriend, Ben is complicated. We have been together for almost two years. We have been friends for four. We met at college. Ben is from another state and recently moved back to that state, in order to be near his family for a little bit and earn some money and I had every plan of visiting. Ben says he has every intention of moving back here in a few weeks or in June.
His dad had recently survived cancer when Ben moved home. His dad is doing great. I have never met his parents due to the fact Ben rarely went home and they didn't have the money to visit. I have met one of Ben's friends who did visit. When his friend visited, he hit on me and I turned him down. His friend, a few months ago spread lies about me to Ben's parents because he was hurt that I turned him down. Ben's parents told me that they didn't want me with him or having contact really with him and told him the same thing, even though Ben is an adult and should control his own life.