I probably don't have reason to be at this point. I've been separated since July, and divorce just became final in early April. We have been mentally/spiritually separated for years tho.
I have never actually "dated" anyone. And I've never been physically with anyone but my exhusband. XDH and I were good friends in high school and we didn't get together until I came back from college. But, we didn't go out on dates or anything. I came back from college, he came back from basic training, and we just moved in together and ended up married. We have now reverted back to our high school platonic friendship. After the hurt subsided from him running off with a twenty year old...
I now have someone that appears to be interested in me. We've kind of reconnected on facebook. I knew his wife and him for several years, but hadn't seen them in about 8-10 years. He's been divorced 3 years. He's asked me to call him, but didn't put his # in the message, so I gave him my # and told him to call any time.
This may seem stupid to most of you, but I just don't know the rules to the dating game. LOL He may not even call, or it may not even go anywhere after a phone call or two. I guess I just need someone to tell me it will be alright! I won't let my mind wander anywhere near "what ifs" regarding the physical side of things. Then I really freak out!