I remember, many years ago, a working mom made the claim that stay at home mothers didn't really do all that much.  That as a working mom, she did everything that a stay at home mother did, in addition to working.

Here I am several years, and tons of experience, later.  My opinions on that subject have been refined since then.  I am wondering if any of you ladies remember that debate, and with time and experience if your opinions on the matter have changed.

I am also curious if that mind set is prevelant in "young" working moms today?