I am a 45 year old Active Duty Soldier. I have taken care of myself and stayed in good shape. I am married to a very attractive woman and I have never cheated on her. I don't think she has ever cheated on me or ever given me a reason to doubt here. We have teenagers at home and she is very conservative. I have asked to have Skype Sex, but she refuses. She doesn't want me to look at porn, but she won't have phone sex or skype sex. I have deployed before, and just lied about it. I have watched some porn and taken care of myself. She is upset with me that I ask her on a regular basis, but she still says no. Who is being unrealistic here. Am I wrong or should I accept her feelings that Skype sex is "Taboo"? This is driving me nuts and I think about it more than I should. LOL, I guess I need a little stress release.

I hope this doesn't offend anyone, but I this is an issue anyone who has deployed has had to address.