This is a pretty weird question about my pretty weird orgasms!
Some background: Dh (32) and I (30) have been together for 9 years, married for 6 this July, one DD (2 1/2). We were each other's first and we waited until we got married and everything, so we've basically learned everything together. The sex is amazing most of the time, but my orgasms seem to be marching to the beat of their own drum!
Unlike everybody else, I only orgasm through penetration and lots of energetic thrusting. I only orgasm if I'm face down or doing it doggie style, and there were exactly 3 times when I came on my back with my legs bent all the way back to my shoulders. Oral and finger play are only foreplay for me; I've only come close to orgasming through them a couple of times, but I always need him to penetrate me to really get there. The REALLY weird part is that I never orgasm with him actually inside me! The feeling builds up while he thrusts, then the actual ZING comes right after he withdraws. I only feel it if I'm flat on my belly on the bed/couch/floor/whatever with my legs squeezed shut!! No other position works, I never come with my legs open, I never come with him inside me, and I never come unless he's pounding me like a steak!
Even when I'm solo (as someone who was 100% celibate for 24 years at this time and age, I should write a book about it!) I can only come lying face down, rubbing my clitoris with something rough, like a towel. Soft touching and slow motion don't work, not when I'm alone, not when I'm with DH.
I have no problem with all that, and DH, fantastic lover that he is, always makes sure we finish in a position guaranteed to make me come. But I was just wondering if there was anything I can do to get "normal" orgasms lol. I'd really love to experience an orgasm through oral, like everybody else does. Any ideas?