well as the title of the post states: we lost the baby early this week.  I have been having marital troubles and such and was seriously seriously stressed to the point the I lost like 10 lbs in 4 days....    it may be good to tell you that my marital issues have been resolved without splitting our family.  we think though that the massive stress is what terminated the pregnancy.      I know I console myself with the fact that it is probably better this way since we do have an 11 week old baby as is....  but I know I am very very disappointed and oddly enough hope for another baby soon.....  (yes I am a weird person).....  just thought I'd let you know before anyone started wondering why I fell off the grid....  happy and healthy 9 months to all of you wonderful mamas!