I see that some of these posts have been viewed a lot. It makes me wonder if there are people who are dealing with sexual abuse watching the board that perhpas would really like to say something. This board used to be very active and it was a very helpful tool for me as I was dealing with SA. I just wanted to let you know that if you're here watching and are a bit shy in saying anything, you are welcome to. No one puts pressure on anyone to say more, just say hi or whatever you'd like. This place has been a good place for me to talk and vent.