Sigh.... We recently found out I'm pregnant with #4. My other kids are 8,7 and 5. This wasn't planned and we were excited that all of our kids were out of the baby stage. Now, my personal belief, (even though I'm not super religious) is that god never gives you more than you can handle and that children are a blessing. I would never consider an abortion. But lately that is all he talks about. When I asked him what he wanted to do this weekend, his response was "go get an abortion!". It really makes me sad. Our other kids are over the moon excited about another sibling. I hate all his negative energy. What can I do?