I'm having a small cookout - 6-8 people, I asked my daughter if she could make something, like some appetizers...she said okay. Today she says you asked people to come over and now you are asking me to make something!!! Excuse me...I'm making everything and buying everything...I just asked for a little bit of help since I do work all week...is it me? or was that a bit rude...I wouldn't mind but she isn't working. I know I didn't raise her to be rude like that and I was upset. I'm still shaking my head! I did say you don't have to be so nasty to me, all I did was ask, if it's that much of an inconvenience don't do it...OMG.