Im 32 going on 33 next month, I don't have any children and have never been married.... Is something wrong with me? I'm starting to get down on myself, I haven't been in a "real relationship " in three years... I tend to date/attract only jerks with one thing on their mind and I'm starting to think its me?!?! I have a decent job but I'm not satisfied with my educational level so in order to go back to school full time and keep my full time job I have moved home for a year to pay for school out of pocket. Im trying to get financially ahead for once in my life. Yes I'm 32 and live with mom and dad :/ ! I have a good core group of friends and a supportive family. I keep very physically fit, dress well, have a good personality, and many would say I'm above average in the looks department. Problem is this: guys are not into me!?!? People at work, family, friends all wonder why I'm single and I have no answer for them. I know that I tend to be picky,... I just refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies in my stomach. Also, I'm petrified of being hurt and having my heart broken.... I have been hurt badly emotionally and physically by an ex ( that's not an issue... I was smart enough to get out). People think I'm the total package though ... So much so ,that some of the judges I work for have tried to set me up with younger family members, co-workers live vicariously through me, my friends tell me that if I wasn't their friend they would "hate me" ect, ect ! In reality, on the inside I'm lonely, insecure and completely lost.