I can't stand it. I thought men wanted sex more than women? I've been with my husband for 4 years, married for only one. We have a three year old daughter and I have a seventeen year old son. We have a great family but the sex life is horrible. When we first dated it was phenomenal but quickly we hit a rut and I started to realize he was t the typical make as far as sex drive goes. It's gotten worse every year. We should be in our honeymoon stage still but we have sex about once a month or do and usually only after I bring it up and beg for it. He says he's tired or just caught up with work. He owns a company and is always working at his laptop! I've tried books, toys, clothes, strip clubs etc....but it's all short lived! I feel like maybe I think about it too much or I'm too sensual for him but I'm frustrated and almost feel like its going to cause me to drift to someone else. We've even been to counseling and still go but nothing changes or only for a week it'll change. The passion is gone. But every other aspect of our life is great...should I stop complaining? He says he wants me and sex but funny how he will initiate while I'm cooking and the kids are in the other room or at a time when he knows we won't finish...it's a treads and now I'm just not even into him! Have no clue what to do.