So my bf and I live with his best friend in a cozy 2 bedroom condo. Our rent is $1750 a month, split 3 ways. However my bf and I pool our money so we technically pay $1100 each month in rent. Whoever's pay check falls when rent is due. Our room mate covers the rest. Well he has just started seeing this girl now for about a month. Literally since the beginning she has been sleeping over at our place EVERY single night. If it isn't every night it is at least 5 nights a week. Shes leaving shoes at our place, cooking in our kitchen at least 3 nights a week, keeping stuff in our fridge. I am 8 weeks pregnant and hate when she cooks because shes a health nut when it comes to food so everything she cooks is really funky, loaded with garlic and always turns my stomach. It's ironic though because she smokes, and she will go on our patio, while the windows are open, have a smoke and it all comes back in!! We have a small condo and the place has occassionally stunk like cigarettes which infuriates me since I am pregnant! The whole situation infuriates me. I am close to asking her if shes suddently become homeless or something. My bf and I don't care for her, clearly. Not to mention she downs at least a bottle of wine a night!! She sleeps at our place as much as I do, and I pay to live here,so does my bf, so does our room mate. She doesn't!!! She always just sits in our room mates room too. Never comes out to socialize unless shes in the kitchen cooking, because our living room and kitchen are one big room. She says hi, asks how we are, but thats the extent of it. Rent is due now and my bf is not sending our room mate our portion until our room mate says something, then my bf planes to ask if we are splitting rent right down the middle now since theres now 4 people living here. Are we right to ask for her to pay too? If she were only sleeping over a few nights a week that would be different. But its literally every single night.
Our room mate works 9-5 mon-fri. She is a bartender so obviosuly doesn't. When they leave in the morning, she drives him to work and I guess goes back to her place for the day, then she picks him up from work and they come here. They don't go to her place because they are co-workers and she lives with other ppl they both work with, and the company they work for has sponsered her to be here on a visa.Shes from australia. So if the company finds out they are seeing each other they could revoke her visa. Personally I wouldn't care if that were to happen, she'd be out of my hair at least. This place just isn't big enough for 4 people. And definitely not big enough for one of them to stay for free. Not to mention, shes kind of a bitch. I leave at the same time every morning as they do and does she even ask if I would like a ride into town? My room mate and I only work 5 min away from each other.We live in a village. Not that I expect her to ask and that I would even accept a ride from her, she probably smokes in the car, but still, to me thats basic manners. Do we say something about her paying or not?