So disappointed in this board.  I hope that the entire iVillage community has not disintegrated into people that can't tolerate different lifestyles and personalitites because let me tell you, I AM DIFFERENT TOO.  I am a 54 year old woman that due to good genes (you should see my mom) is still hot enough that my kids friends want to date me (my kids HATE THAT). I ride a BIG motorcycle, lifts weights 3 times a week, do a lot of guy things, kayak and write professionally (although not a lot of success at that yet) and that isn't even touching the differences.  How long till you are saying what I write is untrue (although I came here for help, not an untrue word would I write on this board).

Shywon, you need to grab some of these posters and shake them to wake them up. Look at you, here you are (I am talking about certain women on here) on a SINGLES board complaining that you can't find a decent man that wants to be with you and you are acting like cruel little high school girls picking on someone that as far as I can, NEVER did you any harm just because she is different.

So I am going to explore some of the other boards and see if I can find someone out there that is willing to accept you for who you are. Not decide just because her life is much more interesting than yours that she is lying.  Good luck and I hope some of you do wake up and smell the coffee.