Hi everyone I need a females advice who have read Fifty Shaders of Grey. I am a male and have been married to my DW for 25 years. As what happend in a lot of marriages the zing has gone out of our sex life. My wife, and I too, have read the first two installments of Fifty Shades of Grey. Now she rarely gets sexually excited at much anymore but she did ejoy the book and admitted to getting a little excited reading it.
We are going out of town next weekend to get away from everything. I thought I would take the contract in the first book and change it some. Instead of being a contract between a dom and sub, it's a contract between a "Pleasurer" (me) and a "Pleasuree" (DW). Of course my contract is shortened considerably but it just lays out the rules that I as the Pleasurer and her as the Pleasuree will follow next weekend. Below is the main part of the "contract". What would you do if your DH came to you with something like this? Would you jump in his arms and give him a loving kiss? Or would you kick him "there"?
Thanks for all you help.
- - The Pleasurer shall make the Pleasuree’s health and safety a priority at all times
- - The Pleasurer shall make every effort to make this as pleasurable and erotic experience for the everyone involved.
- - During the time in the “Red Room of Pleasure” the Pleasurer may direct the Pleasuree to wear certain items of clothing.
- - The Pleasurer will direct all actions that take place in the “Red Room of Pleasure.”
- - During the time in the “Red Room of Pleasure” the Pleasurer shall always refer to the Pleasuree as either “Miss Steele”, or “Anastasia”. Referring to the Pleasuree as “T****” shall bring immediate punishment as described in paragraph 15.
- -While in the “Red Room of Pleasure” the Pleasurer and shall not talk about his everyday life. This includes children, work or anything else that could cause any kind of stress. The “Red Room of Pleasure” is meant for one thing and one thing only, total and complete sexual satisfaction.
- - Failure to adhere to paragraph 13 or 14 shall invoke the following punishment: A hard spanking or some other punishment of the Pleasuree’s choosing.
- - The Pleassurer shall not invoke any pain on the Pleasuree except in the case of (1) as stated in paragraph 23 or (2) to induce more pleasure (a little spank to enhance the senses).
- - As stated in paragraph 5, the Pleasuree will relax and lose all sexual inhibitions.
- - The Pleasuree will follow the Pleasurer’s lead and follow his instructions.
- - If there is something the Pleasuree wants she may request it but it is the sole discretion of the Pleasurer whether to grant it or not.
- - During the time in the “Red Room of Pleasure” the Pleasuree shall always refer to the Pleasurer as either Mr. Grey, or Christian. Referring to the Pleasurer as “L****” shall bring immediate punishment as described in paragraph 23.
- - While in the “Red Room of Pleasure” the Pleasuree shall not talk about her everyday life. This includes children, work or anything else that could cause any kind of stress. The “Red Room of Pleasure” is meant for one thing and one thing only, total and complete sexual satisfaction.
- - Failure to adhere to paragraph 21 or 22 shall invoke one of the following punishments: (1) A light spanking or (2) A request to wear a certain item of clothing and/or accessories inside or outside of the “Red Room of Pleasure.” Unlike noted in paragraph 25 below, the Pleasuree shall immediately comply with Pleasurer’s request. The item of clothing and/or accessories shall be worn for as long as the Pleasurer desires.