I put my profile on Match about two weeks ago and got a 3-mt. membership and put 59 on my profile even though I'm 60, so I wasn't sure if I would get any response.  Things have kind of slowed up, and I'm just wondering if it's a lost cause.   I do have one I'm supposed to meet later this week.  Should I also join a free site, too, or start hangin the bar scene?  I really can't join any clubs right now, because of work and finances, little free time.  That seems to go hand in hand with being single.  I decided not to do Match's Stir event happy hr., because I think everyone will be younger.   They will have more of these in the future.  Maybe I should just get a cat.