I am Jayda, I have an 11 yr old super daughter. She is a good kid, good student, etc. My issue is, she has a little girl in her class, (a very small school I may add) and has known this child since pre-k, They never really got along from the beginning for some reason, but about 2 yrs ago, she was invited over and they played so well, I mean great. She spent the night several times, sometimes even the entire weekend. They play well, never argue, the girl is kind, polite, and her parents are good people, a little odd, but nice. The issue is, when they go to school, she is mean to my daughter, ignores her and is downright cruel. I have witnessed it myself and the child wont even look at me!! However, after school, she is calling and of course all summer she calls, we have a pool, so I think this is also a plus, she wants to swim. She is obsessed with this other girl in the class who is a bully IMHO and wants to be friends with her at school b/c she is popular. This past May, we took this kid out to dinner and to a special outing that we paid for and the next day, she would not speak to my child. It really made me mad. I try and bite my tongue and not be negative or say bad things about my child's friends, but it just makes me upset that she treats my child so poorly. Now, the little girl is calling again and to be honest, I am fed up, Am I being silly by not wanting my child to hang out with her? I just feel so conflicted and childish myself for feeling this way, but hey, I love my daughter and dont want her to be used. Any feelings on this?? Thanks!