My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and it's already been a lot of work. I love him and think we could have a great life together, but the man has no passion... for me. The first few months he was crazy about me and we were having sex almost everyday. Sadly, I was on the pill and it killed my sex drive, but I still played along. I got off of the pill and my sex drive is back, but now, he has no sex drive. A few months ago he took up cycling and he is obsessed with it. He goes on several long rides a week (35 to 70 miles each). All he talks about is cycling. When he comes over he immediately boots up his computer to input all of his stats. And then, he wants to eat and sleep. Three weeks went by and he never made a move. I, in the meantime, am super affectionate. I am always trying to kiss him and get him to makeout with me, but he never wants to. It sucks! He finally, reluctantly, broke the drought the other day, but it wasn't easy! I'm just wondering, is this normal for cyclists? I thought, if anything, getting more fit would increase his sex drive. But I feel like cycling is his mistress. I've heard you can't expect a guy to change, but I'm hoping this might be a phase. Anyone out there experienced this?