A guy I met online wants to meet for coffee for the first time.
I am wondering if I am wrong to feel this way.
I suggested a place convenient to me but he wants me to go up further north which is convenient to him.
I had a past experience where I had to travel during rush hour in a jammed subway to meet a guy for coffee close to where he lives. After that I felt stupid for putting in all the effort. I wasn't interested in him at all.
I feel like, as a guy shouldn't he put in more effort? I get the feeling that he is lazy and I am not sure if I want a lazy bf.
A guy friend told me that I shouldn't travel up to meet a guy. Let him come to me.
Would you agree to meet at the place he suggested if you were me?