So we finally told our family(at least the important ones) and it went just as I thought it would, Terrible! My mom was shocked and then told us we were stupid, and what business did we have to chance bringing another child into this world with the same problems as our daughter? Just what we need another kid! And so on... As for my mother-in-law it was pretty much the same thing. let me just say I am a stay at home mom and my husband is a chemist we own our home. We are stable adults. I am have trouble getting excited about this pregnancy because of the genetic testing, but my family is making even harder.