Hi All! I have been reading this board to see if there is something I'm doing wrong since I can't please my husband. To start out, we are separated at the moment but we have been talking and maybe try to work things out. When he comes over, we cuddle but it usually turns into more. We haven't had sex in about two weeks. Tonight when he was over we ended up in the bedroom but again he pleases me but I can't get him to climax. I've asked him about it and he said it feels different. I did have a hysterectomy in December but he never said anything about it feeling any different. I'm not sure if it's because we are separated and don't know where our relationship is going? I've asked him what I can do to please him and make him feel good. He said it feels good, he just can't climax. I remember once before he said I turn him on and then again I don't. That confused me. Any suggestions? I hate that I can't make him feel as good as he does for me.