Hi. I usually post in the EAS board, but I wanted to ask you whether anyone has experience with this.
I had an affair and ended up separating from my H. The A didn't work out, and now I'm beginning (very slowly) to consider the possibility of trying to fix things with my H, but I don't want to jump into it yet. There are many things that bind us, among them a child, and also the friendship that we've had over the years.
My main problem is that sex with my xAP was great, like nothing I had ever experienced. With my H it was never that way. I think I have a stronger sex drive than my H, and I'm also much less inhibited than him. I wonder whether CT might help us resolve other issues that would eventually lead us to improving our sex life. I'd like to know whether anyone here has dealt with similar issues and has been able to solve them.