Dh's grandfather could not bring himself to sign the DNR papers before, but this week grandma in law has had a turn for the worse. He finally asked her if she wanted to be taken off machines, and she nodded yes. Tomorrow he is supposed to sign the papers. She will be taken off all the machines and given morphine. They expect her to be gone by Friday. Please pray for our family. It will be hard on us all, but it is going to be very rough on dh since she basically raised him.