Hii have never had a orgasm with my boyfriend and we have been together for years. This is so embarrising, because we are both in our 40. and we have been together for 10 years. i can't tell him. i am also going thru emotional roller coast with him. Sometimes i feel as though because i had sex when i was younger and i do mean a lot, perhaps i am not able to. however i do masturbate my self. but lately I can't stop thinking about sex day in and day out. I am going crazy and i can't stop thinking about sex Now it's like i need it so much. Could it be because of my hormones. He doesn't understand it either. What do I do. i try to please him as much as possible. I try to make him happy. but sometimes he says the most awful things about me and to me. It's likethe more he says things, the more i try to please him. the sex is great. I just want to have it with him;. Also, I hear eveyone talking about the g spot. exactl how do you get to it.