Hi I'm new here my husband and I just had a baby 2 months ago and we decided that I should stay home instead of paying for childcare. He used to be THe most loving and supportive person I knew now he expects me to take care of the baby cook dinner every night run errands and keep house spotless everyday he thinks that I do nothing all day but he doesn't understand that the baby is hard work and not sleeping at night doesn't help he has changed 2 diapers and gotten up one time with her in the middle of the night how do I help him to understand that the house can't be perfect everyday and that there are going to be some days that dinner just doesn't get made ?