I'm the youngest of three sibling but I'm not a kid im 20 years old and my oldest sibling is 28 anyways does anyone who's the youngest sibling ever feel like they get the leftover "crap" their older sibling did? For example my sisters and brother never really made great choices in life it wasnt anything too bad just going out partying, sometimes underage drinking until they turned 21, and one of my sisters being pretty lazy and not holding down a job. You know just enjoying their twenties! My sisters are more mature and responsible now they both moved out recently and live their own lives now so im the only one at home. My oldest brother is by far the laziest guy i've ever encounterd at almost 30 years old he's still NEVER had a part time job! I've been working since i graduated highscool a couple years ago! My mother never disiplined my brother he pretty much got awat with anything and still does. She was always pretty hard on us though, me and my sisters would always get yelled at over some very trivial thing's. Now that they're moved out and it's just me she's always on my case about anything I do! I've never been the partying type i usualy come home at a decent time i had good grades in school sice i've gotten a job i pay for my own food and anything else I've never been one to ask my parents for anything since i got a job not for xmas not even for my birthday because I feel like my fathers provided with enough things. I help her clean the house and loan her money when she asks. The only thing I asked of my mom was to take me to work because my car's not working and i cant afford to fix it and I would give her money every pay period to do it. Everytime she get's mad she always takes out whatever crap my brother and sisters ever did on me! She tell's me how I dont do anything to help her and how everyone in the family never helps her, I feel like im getting the lashing about all the negative things my sisters or brother did because im the only one left to nit pick at! even to this day she treat's my brother like a king! he's never their for his kids, never has a job and is always running the streets he curses at her and has even had his girlfriend living at my house at a point in time but my mother would NEVER tolerate that with us! We never cursed in front of my mom not only because we thought of it as disrespect but because we would get punished also! I don't understand why she chooses to treat me so maliciously sometimes, I feel like I'm the only one who started off with a decent start, never got in trouble with school the law or anything really!  Do any of the other younger sibling experience this? I thought we were supposed to be the pampered one's who got away with everything! Sorry for the long post!