I have been seeing an older man for about 6 months now and we have eatabllished a relationship. In the beginning the sex was not often but I chose to look pass that for the moment. I have an extremely high sex drive and i want it all the time. He takes medication for seizures and the side effects effect him sexually. We talked about it and he changed medications and told me that it takes a little time for it to take effect. I don't want to keep pressuring the subject but it is annoying that we are not having sex. He is not even attempring to please me in other ways, and he will say little things like he was feeling frisky the other day but did not follow through. Basically telling me what he is going to do to me etc and not following through. He says that he does not want to have sex and get me started and has to stop because he loses his erection. I really do not want to end the relationship over something that seems so small,but to me its a big issue! It is like an elephant in the room. I have never been the kind of person to really speak up about how i feel but i know this something that cannot be ignored any longer. He is asking me to be paitent but I don't know how much longer I can be paitent.