Last night I had a little too much wine and went to bed before my husband. I woke up about a hour later in the middle of us having anal sex. When I woke up he just started kissing my neck and manually stimulated me to orgasm before he came. So it's not that it was an unplesant experience it's just I feel kind of weird and maybe used. When I got up this morning I saw the lube out on his night stand so I know it wasn't a spur of the moment middle of the night thing. I just keep staring at him today and wondering why he didn't wake me up first. We've had anal a few times before so it's not like he needed to sneak it in on me. Maybe it was some kind of fanasty of his. I guess I'll have to talk to him about it or lay off the wine in the future.