Good Day, My husband just came clean about caring on an affair with a women from high school that he just reconnected with after 27 years. He packed up all this things and moved in with this women. Anyone have any advice on how to understand or make sense of this. No begging to forgive him or wanting to work things out just gone. He's been a bit depressed off and on over the past few years but this incident is a total shock after 10 years of marriage. looking for some incites from those who have gone through this type of betrayal.