So what is the best way for me to break things to my H that I want a divorce and how should I go forward from there?
We already had the conversation once back in June. That conversation was completely unplanned. We were on a family vacation and while I had already made the decision that I wanted to divorce I had not planned to say anything until after the vacation. We were there with my parents, DS, and DSD. H forced the issue after he went snooping through my purse and found my therapist's business card. H asked for time to try and change and for us to work things out.
I am now approaching the end of that time and I still want to go forward with a divorce. How do I break it to him this time? I am 90% sure he won't do anything physically to me, but there is still that 10% that has me worried. Also, I will be the one leaving the house to go live with my parents and I plan to take DS with me. I guess I am also asking for advice on how I should logistically do things? Should I pack up everything when H is out of the house?