DW and I have been together for 13 years and married for 10 of them. During those years, we've managed to have IC about once a month and every now and then twice. I have wanted the frequency to be more along the lines of 2 to 3 times per week and have spoken to her about this on numerous occasions. She says that she is often in the mood for IC and would like to make it happen more often, but acts indifferent when we have alone time, or makes excuses unless she's the one that is feeling frisky. She thinks I'm good-looking and says that I do everything really good in bed. I am tired of taking care of myself and have grown resentful. I feel as though we're more or less roommates. I'm not sure at this point what to do. All of my talking to her has produced no results. At this point, I'm ready to find a FWB.