Well I kind of wanted to talk about this since reading a few other posts about people being out of sorts as I am once again back in that hole myself. So I have been out of the A for 4.5 months now. I have not been no contact all that time. In fact I am probally the worse one on this board for breaking it. I hate that I do it. But I still do. And I guess Im curious for the ones that have broken no contact what exactly you talk about and how it all ends. I know for me after its all said and done...i think what was the purpose of that...where did it get me..sigh......I hate affairs!