All is well. SHE TURNED HEAD DOWN!!! He really doesn't feel like she'll move again, so we're in good shape. He said she feels "bigger than average." I'll have an u/s in a few weeks.
We also had a really honest conversation about the fact that I have a limited window for help AND my help has to drive 8 hours to get here. We have decided that we will (at the very least) break my water on November 19th if I haven't gone into labor before hand. I'm really comfortable with this date and this plan at this point. We were actually hoping for the 15-16, but whatever. DH has that entire week off of work and the plan will allow my MIL to get down here leisurely.
So, if this little girl hasn't arrived before hand - she'll be here on the 19th!