does this woman have a problem? She is in my mom's group. She had a baby during the summer, and came back to the group in the fall (our group does not meet during the summer); her SIL is in our group and she said "none of you did anything for her when she had her baby". This is her second baby so some people naturally don't think a shower is necessary. But after her guilt trip, we pitched in money to give her. Now, 2 weeks later, her SIL sends out an email to all of us with a sign up sheet, telling us we should cook and bring meals to this new mother's home, every night, for the next two weeks. She is not sick & her baby is not sick, and I don't see why we are being asked to do this. I have never brought food to anyone's home unless they had a death in their family or had just come back from the hospital. Its also not like she just got out of the hospital - she had her baby quite some time ago. It seems tacky to me. I also get the feeling that she wants everyone to bow down and worship her because she just had a baby. It also seems like, over and over again, we are confronted with: "you should do lots of things for this person". I would have thought the money gift was enough. No? I get the feeling there is more to come.