Hi all. About a month ago, I started texting and talking to this guy I met online. We seem to have hit it off. He texts me good morning every morning, he will text during his breaks at work, and then in the evenings. We decided to meet. The problem is he lives 12 hours away. So we decided to meet half way each. We were suppose to meet this past weekend, but last week I got sick so we are rescheduling. ( I am 50, he is 53).
About two weeks ago, he started texting sex stuff. What he wants to do, etc. I kinda responded back and forth with him, but last week he started to text me pictures of himself, and then wanting me to send him pics of myself, which I did not do. For some reason this weekend, I decided to google his screen name, and what pops up is on one site he is looking for "hot sexy woman to either, phone fantasies, 1 on 1 sex, 3 somes, and other stuff. What also came up showing he has an account with adultism, an online sex site.
Needless to say, I am heart broken. I really thought we had a connection, thought even though he lived far away, I was willing to meet him and give it a shot. He said he was looking for a long term relationship, but after finding all that, I think he is just looking for an online sex partner, and no more.
It really bothered me to find that out about him. I really thought he was different. Do I confront him with what I found out, or do I just not talk to him anymore? I really like him, and I could never meet him knowing I would have my heart broken.
Any advice is very much appreciated...