Here are some esteem boosting, positive outlook questions. ( Thanks Michele!)
1) What do you like most about your physical appearance (no downplaying your positives with negative annotations, that's what I do lol)
2) what does your SO like most about your physical appearance?
3) what is the thing you like most about yourself, non-physical. (again no downplaying your positives)
4) what do you like most about your SO?
5) What made you fall in love with your SO?
6) For those who are married, if you were to renew your vows how and where would you do it? Would it be different from your wedding? If so how?
7) if you aren't married to your SO what is the most romantic date he's ever taken you on?